Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Unisex fragrances

Today i am going to rant about one of my favorite topics: unisex fragrances. What exactly are they good for? In the current society, in my opinion, the lines between men and women blur daily more. The tactics used for achieving this is "we do not want that women are treated worse than men". This is something, where most educated people would instantly press their "common sense" button and nod "oh yeah, good thing, i am all up for it".

Hooray, it is a man (?).. err.. i hope
How people live their life is sole up to them, there is no right or wrong. But one sees the change that comes with this approach: the woman gets "more rights". Like, the right to work hard in an environment that is dominated still by men. Like, the right, for that then to have no kids. Like, the right, to change the husband/partner, as it just fits to the current situation of living (see, high divorce rate in developed countries).
The woman also expects suddenly that the man understands things that are, in their origin, most "female-ish", like, pregnancy. Couple-classes for birth preparation, "he" has to know when at which week what is indicated, etc. If "he" lacks the enthusiasm, she is upset. I wonder, if i can bother men around me also with PMS one day? as in "understand please how i feel now, you should really know!"

Unisex haircut in SL
Those things carry over even to realms and roleplay environments like the Dark Den. I saw over the past years always men, who did not really know what to do in an area with "forced" situations. Just yesterday, i had such an encounter again where "he" (a guest) wanted to dance and cuddle with me. Uhm, no? I do not want that? He then stormed out of the area, upset, yelling.
I will not tell now what would have been nicer, instead of storming out. I did so often in my old blog. Today, i will just show a picture, it should say enough:
He did not use unisex fragrances

Oh, and, by the way if you want to copy that as outfit, please do not do THIS:
This is what i call a "want to be".

The long hair, the golden vest, that is just .. uhm.. not my personal style *cough*

And now i know what i will blog about more often: outfits for men! Yes!, i think that is a niche. Because, so many men in SL go for example for "long hair" and a certain freebie skin. No no no.
A friend of mine has this in his profile (and his appearance is by the way very good looking):

Give a shit about how you present yourself.  Get the best AV you can afford.  Use sentences when you talk.  Be intelligent, dazzle.  If I wanted to watch cartoons having sex I would watch manga, not jump on a poseball.
And there, i can only second all that.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Where are the old posts?

I was grounded due to sickness last week and got time to think about things.

  • Who is important to me?
  • What is important to me?
  • What do i want to do in SL?
  • What do i not want to do in SL?
I have read through my blog, some entries were amusing, some nice, others simply no longer valid. People come and go, they enter my life and leave it again. 

I think, i can say, my SL is wonderful and nice. I have very loyal friends, who even support me when i thought already they have long forgotten about me. With Glint, many call it their home, and even when we struggle about the "how", we keep it running and i keep getting support in many ways.

Who is important to me?
I could list names. Of friends who supported and support me. But as soon as i do that, i am 100% sure, i will forget to mention some. And these will hurt. That, i do not want. So, no names. Except three:
Ava, Jarethe, vb.
And all others, you know who you are and i am sure you understand my reason why you are not listed with names here. I just counted, it would easily be more than 30 names.

What is important to me?
That my friends know that i value them, that my love knows, i love her.

What do i want to do in SL?
I want to enjoy my time. I want to script further on the MA HUD. And i want to develop other gadgets. Also i want to have nice, really nice, roleplay.

What do i not want to do in SL?
Endure boring RP or talk endlessly OOC stuff. Really. That is what drives me away most. RP partners who mistake me as girlfriend, who, after one session IM me with "kisses"....ewwww... or Roleplay, which is all about being nice and stuff, at a location like Dark Den.
Earlier, i got all annoyed about it. It spoiled my day. I will change that. If someone is dense, i will walk away. 

What will be here in this blog?
Not sure yet.

It was nice...

.. to have this blog. But i do not need it, in this form, anymore.


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